I wrote this one evening last winter when life was pressing in on all sides. I desperately needed to relieve the pressure so I took myself off to visit a glow worm population that inhabits a damp cliff face by our local stream. There was no light pollution and no moon - only starlight (which is pretty magical) and the luminescence of the glow worms which, sprinkled amongst the ferns, messed with my depth perception as I marvelled my way slowly along their communities. After a while I sat down by the stream, running my hands through the icy current and allowing the soothing water to wash away the last of my lingering distress. Enjoy 🙂 Run Away from the Loud the Lights the Overwhelm Run Away to the quiet dark and still places where only soft silver starlight illuminates the world space and time collide and all that exists is me - in this moment water wends its way to the sea carrying away my cares to its infinite depths cooling and calming my head my heart it caresses embraces i am home Run Away with me see what we can be when we are free
Month: February 2022
Too Much
A short observation I wrote in a notebook back in July 2021 whilst enjoying a proper chai latte (in a mug not a glass!) at my favourite local café which (very) sadly had to close its doors after Christmas having struggled (like many other small businesses) in these challenging and uncertain times.
Living in the country, trips to town are events rather than outings and my little chai ritual helped in fortifying myself to tackle the inevitably extensive list of errands which invariably culminated in a long and stressful trip to the supermarket before heading for home – it was a lovely way to balance the day.
I laugh too much, I cry too much
I think too much, I worry too much
I love to much, I hurt to much
I care to much, I give too much
I feel too much, I hide too much
I smile too much, I hug too much
I am too much and yet, somehow
I am not enough
November Spa in NZ (better late than never!)
sensationally sensory bathing in the naked glow of a lightbulb moon reflections in and on and dancing all around me warm water embraces, caresses icy gusts tug at my hair my eyes water i squint and the lightbulb becomes a kaleidoscope closing one eye, winking the moon jumps over my nose the chill wind lifts the hairs on my arms it whips away my warmth exposed skin vulnerable drawing more from the water i enjoy the juxtaposition of sensations the flow of heat in and through and away from me i stare into the depthless twilight blue skies darken almost imperceptibly unrelenting the cold moon shines brighter with self-satisfaction eventually, i become aware there's a star the faintest of awakenings i blink and there's another they appear slowly at first hiding themselves if i look straight into them but then there are dozens hundreds thousands unfazed by their sister they augment her light with their own cold and yet warm ancient timeless imaginary lines connect the dots the southern cross orion's belt or alternatively the pot satisfied i withdraw the wind delights in all of me i stand there shivering for a moment then wrap myself up in a giant towel sliding into bed i am accutely aware of the clean, fresh sheets their smell their sound their feel i lay my head it sinks into a soft cloud of feathers and i close my eyes i listen to the comforting sound of the dishwasher and the low humming of the fridge the wind sounds like waves crashing on the shore i fall asleep dreaming of the ocean
The Wisdom of Sir Terry Pratchett
A man whose genius improved with age and for whom Death came too soon.
Light thinks it travels faster than anything but it is wrong.
Terry Pratchett – Reaper Man
No matter how fast light travels, it finds the darkness has always got there first, and is waiting for it.
Also…
in memory of Robin Williams
the brighter the light, the darker its shadows.
Carl Jung
Light
have you ever felt like your heart is going to explode? like a star going supernova every cell in your body effervescing with so much joy and happiness it's surely impossible to contain it all laughter bubbles up an overflow of delight starlight twinkles in your eyes an extension of your smile ************************************ sometimes it's a silent explosion internal combustion in a quiet moment of absolute perfection the smell of a hot, spicy chai or a bright morning after heavy rain the sound of your child breathing, in a deep and restful sleep the sight of your best friend, after too much time away the touch of the ocean as it embraces you – welcoming you home the taste of a handmade honey truffle as it melts into heaven in your mouth a smell, a sound, a look, a touch, a taste your senses ensnared light expands through your soul filling it with warmth until darkness is but a faint memory
Dark
have you ever felt like there's a giant black hole in your soul? a sentient monster that no matter what you feed it it always wants more, more, MORE sometimes you think it's satiated but it's only slumbering - one eye slitted watching waiting biding its time until you're tired or alone or overwhelmed by life, or your thoughts or the state of the world then it awakens once more clawing its way through the cracks in your defenses that hunger which cannot be satisfied you feed it with sugar, alcohol, drugs - it grows bigger and hungrier you escape into fictional fantasy worlds - it makes reality harder to live in you distract yourself with music and art and things that bring you joy - it shrinks until it's almost imperceptible, but never disappears completely so you fight it with light spreading love and laughter and kindness in the hope that no one else will ever feel so empty and alone the way that you do but it only makes the hole deeper - smiling on the outside when you're nothing on the inside ************************************ sometimes the emptiness grows so large it devours you completely leaving you curled and alone small and naked the darkness pressing in on all sides it's hard to let people in the doors are shut the curtains are drawn there is no way out you're a wraith walking around in your own body ************************************ the darkness likes having you all to itself – three's a crowd after all it whispers in your ear caresses you lovingly “stay here with me – I can take away your pain” your head knows it's a lie but your heart aches to obey “YOU are my pain” you cry into the void you reach out a hand and the soft susurrations turn to silent screams “worthless, hopeless, useless, fat, ugly, broken, fucked-up, sorry excuse for a human!” you retreat - curling back into yourself ************************************ If you have ever felt like this please know you are NOT alone keep reaching out keep your hand extended somebody will grasp it in theirs strong and sure and pull you up, up, up they'll embrace you in their warmth shine a light with the unspoken awareness that You. Are. Loved. even when you don't love yourself their heart will beat for both of you, when yours is too heavy to carry on the darkness will recede until the candle burns low again and the light flickers it's easy to forget and the darkness is always waiting if the light goes out - reach out
Yin Yang (a not quite haiku)
light and dark combine joy and sorrow together forever entwined